Annoying people are everywhere. Knowing how to deal with them is a precious skill. So, how can you influence somebody that you don't get along with?
What happens when you want to influence you? Learn to quiet your inner critic by using my 3 step process of Observe, Connect, Influence on yourself.
Comparison avoidance is a wolf in sheep’s clothing, and it’s been secretly keeping you from making bigger and better moves in your business and career.
Influence has a lot of fantastic purposes in business, but let’s talk about some tenets of influence that actually make the world a better place.
Did you know you can be influential without even speaking? Sometimes your most influential decisions have nothing to do with what you’re saying. Yes, words are an important factor of influence, but sometimes you’ll want to turn your focus from the message and direct it to the messenger. If you want to really step-up your influence game, then now is the time to start paying attention to your state. Let’s start by defining state, then we'll talk about the different circumstances in which your state can enhance your influential conversations. What [...]
Your unreasonably high expectation of landing every sales call is what’s stopping you from getting your NEXT sale. It's time to take charge of your mindset.
During a sales call, your pitch will determine if you get a new client or not, and that’s what you're afraid of. But what if this part of your sales call doesn't have to be anxiety-inducing? What if you can have some fun with it?...and maybe even make a game out of it!
All my life, I’ve had this fear in the back of my mind. I’ve struggled with it, made my peace with it, and then looped back to wrestling with it once again. I don’t know if I’m normal or if I’m different, but I’ve always been afraid of people knowing this about me. So, of course, the rational thing to do is to post a blog about it on the internet where it will remain forever. Brilliant. And so, I’m about to reveal a potentially embarrassing fact about myself because I believe that [...]
Become Your Most Influential Self! Don't miss another update with a persuasive technique you can use today I’ve been a professional speaker since I was 23. Before then, I was a stage actress from 14 years old all the way through college. When people learn what I do for a living and find out how long I’ve had my “stage time,” they usually draw the conclusion, “Oh, so you probably don’t get nervous when you have to speak because you’ve been doing it so long.” Not true. I [...]
Brodie died. I’m sure that for all pet owners, the death of a pet is never easy. I don’t know if you could ever get used to losing an innocent creature who loved you unconditionally, trusted you more than anything else in this world, and gave you so much joy. Most people don’t know this, but Brodie was my first pet. We never had pets growing up and I got him just a few years after college. In some ways, I feel like I had a bit of a unique experience raising Brodie because [...]